The man just looked at me ...and I looked at him, or rather, through him. I needed him to repeat what he'd said, so I could be sure it was what he'd said. But meanwhile, I was still struggling with my own thoughts, of what was "not" said. I've always had difficulty with certain aspects of change ...especially with respect to who a person is. Of course, changing your clothes is a good thing. And I never invested much thought into someone changing there hair color, and though I don't recall ever preferring the change, it's actually their preference. My thoughts are usually, "Why change, that's who you are! And God created diversity in a beautiful way ...but it's God's creation, not ours." I remember having a very difficult time when a Doctor in charge of a ward that I once worked on, got a facelift. That seems so unnatural to me. Many of you may laugh, and say I have problems with Facebook too ...but I'm there, and don't mind telling who I am.